GET MORE POSITIVE STRESS AT WORK
Positive pressures create a way to balance out
anxiety and worry.
By Mark Swartz
Here’s
some sunny news about stress: certain types can actually be good for you. A bit
of pressure and nerves gets you focused.
But
too much of what happens at work creates “distress” (negative tension). Like
lack of control. Or not enough resources to do the job well. That can lead to
ailments of the body and mind.
Creating
more positive tension, also known as “eustress,” takes a conscious effort. A
number of techniques are available to turn this into a healthy habit.
Good Stress Builds You Up
We
all know the symptoms of stress. Over time the bad kind can lead to health
problems, or play havoc on emotions unless dealt with.
Eustress
does the opposite. There’s still tension and pressure involved. Only it
challenges you to try harder, reminds you to concentrate on what’s important,
and generates results that improve self-confidence.
Good
stress is a great antidote to negative tension. There is less wear and tear,
more drive toward accomplishment.
How Eustress Is Experienced
You
know that feeling of butterflies in your stomach? Not the kind that makes you
violently nauseous, or leaves you paralyzed with fear.
It’s
more like the nervousness you feel on the way to a job interview you’ve
prepared for, or before making a presentation in front of your colleagues.
The
adrenalin is flowing. Your heart pumps faster and louder. All of your senses
seem amplified. This fight-or-flight response makes you more alert and ready
for the tasks at hand. It seems like whatever is about to happen will be
within your coping abilities.
When
the challenge you’re facing is completed, relative calmness returns. Eustress
tends to be short-term and event-specific.
Typical Good Stressors At Work
There
are lots of examples of positive personal stressors on the job. These may
include:
·
Starting a new job or career
you’re excited about
·
Receiving a desired promotion or
raise
·
Relocating for work after asking to
be re-assigned
·
Getting ready for a much needed
vacation when things are busy
·
Preparing for retirement
Big
events such as changing jobs or relocating don’t arise frequently. So you’ll
have to produce your own eustress on a more regular basis. Consider the
examples below.
Learn a new skill
It
can be stressful to try and pick up new knowledge or skills. Yet it ultimately
brings about self-improvement and increased personal marketability. Those are
the hallmarks of eustress.
Set Firmer Boundaries
Have
you said “no” recently when the boss asked you to work nights and
weekends? Standing up for yourself takes
gumption. It often creates tension at first, which encourages you to take care
and do it respectfully.
Volunteer To Do A Presentation
Few
things boost your profile like giving a well-prepared talk. Yet few things are
as nerve-wracking as public speaking. The secret is to know your stuff, cater
to the needs of your audience, and rehearse till it hurts.
Deal With Workplace Conflicts
It is
risky to confront an annoying colleague or supervisor. However if something
must be done, proceed in ways that are likely to generate eustress. Plan your
approach carefully. Try to propose win-win solutions. And do your best to keep
emotions in check.
Take On A Stretch Assignment
Step
out of your comfort zone every so often. Offer to work on a committee that puts
you in a leadership role. Attempt to solve a problem that no one else has been
able to.
Eustress Versus You Stress
Worry
and strain are among the many aspects of working life. They need to be
balanced with positivity in your daily routine.
Eustress
is beneficial pressure that ignites your resolve to succeed. Insert more of it
into your overall activities. At first you may feel increasingly vulnerable.
But as you learn to manage the fears, you can harness those butterflies to fly
in formation.
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